5 Ways To Find A Truly Loving Partner

5 Ways To Find A
Truly Loving Partner

You meet so many loves in your life.

Each time, you think: this is IT. After this one, I won’t need to look elsewhere. And you start dreaming of building a life together, growing up and growing old together.

But something happens, and you discover that the lover you have is not right for you.

And so you look again.

Wouldn’t it be great to have a list of qualities that would help you know whether the person you are with is the one you will always be with?

Well, here’s your list of 5 qualities that a truly loving partner will have:

1 A truly loving partner will never want you to be different than you are – So if your lover wants you to lose 5 pounds or get that cosmetic procedure because you’ll ‘look better,’ you might have a wonderful lover and be in a great relationship, but you haven’t found your truly loving partner yet.

2 A truly loving partner will not try to control or influence your other relationships – If you’re being asked why you spend so much time with your friends or your siblings, or anyone at all, keep looking, because your truly loving partner will always give you the space to enjoy and grow all your relationships.

3 A truly loving partner won’t question your choices – If you’ve found your truly loving partner, you’ll never be asked to defend your choice of clothes or hobbies or profession or vacation destination, or anything else.

4 A truly loving partner will communicate even negative emotions to you – Love is larger than emotions, and the strains and stresses of living together can throw up some negativity. A truly loving partner will not try to hide negative emotions like anger, hurt, disappointment, pain, worry and so on.

5 A truly loving partner’s goals for you will be the same as your goals for yourself – maybe more, but never less. Your truly loving partner will support you, uplift you, and encourage you to be at least as good as you think you can be. Because they know that you can be even better than you think.

Now that you know how to identify a truly loving partner, comes the million-dollar question of…

How to FIND your truly loving partner

This is actually the simplest part, because it involves regulating yourself.

The easiest way to FIND your truly loving partner is to BE ONE YOURSELF.

When you are truly loving, all the people who need to play the games of power, manipulation, emotional blackmail, and so on will slowly disappear from your life, because they will not be able to handle being with you–simply because you refuse to be drawn into their games.

This will free you from the clutter of ‘wrong’ people surrounding you, and you will be able to attract and meet your truly loving partner, whose wavelength matches yours, who is looking for the same things in a relationship as you are.

It may sound idealistic, or too good to be true, but thousands of people have found their right partner in this manner.

Why don’t you try it out?

At the very least, you’ll enjoy a deeper relationship with your lover.

And once you find your truly loving partner, there won’t be room for any doubt.