Inherited
wealth from your deceased spouse? Here’s how you must manage the money
When your spouse
passes on, your mental state may get fragile. Avoid taking crucial money
decisions in haste, especially on lending to someone you think might need
financial help
About 20 years ago, Reshma was married to the man of her dreams,
Sudhir. A perfect gentleman, he had a high-profile job and a lavish house in
Bengaluru. Sudhir belonged to one of the super-rich families of Karnataka. They
were literally living a splendid life.
Reshma and Sudhir were happily married, and were blessed with two
beautiful daughters – Aarohi (18) and Aarya (15). Reshma was indeed
living a fairytale. Alas! Sudhir passed away a couple of years ago due to a
sudden heart attack. Reshma was completely shattered due to Sudhir’s demise. To
make matters worse, Reshma’s in-laws targeted her for their son’s loss. Reshma
absolutely had no idea about their family’s finances or about the inheritance
Sudhir had left for her and their daughters!
Her brother-in-law made her sign papers which resulted in her
giving away her share of the inheritance.
Unfortunately, it was too late before she realized. This resulted
in physical and financial assets being given away because of her ignorance
about financial matters.
Though she wasn’t rendered penniless and still had some wealth,
the big problem was the liquidity crunch that she faced at the time.
Her brother-in-law took charge of her finances assuming that
Reshma wouldn’t interfere as she had no knowledge about these things. After six
months of manipulation and underestimation, Reshma decided to take charge. She
studied and analysed her finances, started to make decisions on her own,
about herself and her two daughters and their future.
We
discussed in our last column on how you must ensure that your spouse and
children are not
stranded financially if something unfortunate were to happen
to you. We even touched upon the documentary process that the surviving members
need to adopt, without any delay.
But what happens if the person passes on and the surviving spouse
is absolutely clueless about financial matters?
Take
some time off and think
Sometimes, when a spouse leaves a large sum of money behind, there
is a temptation to invest in a hurry. Or, worse, spend it as time passes by.
That may not be such a good idea, after all.
Avoid impulsive purchases and investment decisions by barely
listening to someone. Take your time, organize everything. For instance, if
equity markets are rising the way they have been over the past many months,
there could be a temptation to buy stocks at the earliest. Or worse, buy
bitcoins since they’re the talk of the day.
Most importantly, do not make any financial commitments to family
and friends.
Factor
in your potential lifestyle changes
The loss of a family’s bread earner will automatically affect
one’s lifestyle. In Reshma’s case, she had two growing daughters. Reshma had to
pay for their higher education, save for their marriages and secure her life
during old age. Reshma had to make arrangements for timely payment of her
daughters’ education fees at periodic intervals.
Get
professional help
It’s
always better to seek professional help. As the heir to your spouse’s wealth,
it’s not just a matter of where you would be investing all that money.
Inheritance can be complex as it changes your tax structure, your income and
even your financial goals. Your wealth mostly needs re-engineering. And you
might need advice on
legal, tax, and real estate matters, as well as in portfolio management.
With the right advice,
you can maximize your wealth and make it last for as long as possible, for you
and your children if they are still dependant on you. But do not trust your
advisor with your eyes shut. Work with her, and understand what you need to do
with your money. Your advisor can only recommend, but the final decision must
always be yours.
Someday, you need to convert your inheritance into
sustainable wealth. You need to have a clear understanding of your goals that
you would like to accomplish with this wealth. Once you establish your goals,
you can work on a plan.
Happy Investing
Source: Moneycontrol.com
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